How do I find the best treatment for a loved one struggling with Mental Illness and/or Substance Use Disorder?

There are so many addiction and mental health programs and facilities out there. It can make finding the right treatment for a loved one very challenging and leave a family feeling overwhelmed.
There is so much to consider since we all want what’s best for our loved ones. 

Some considerations are: 

  1. Does the program specialize in the condition my loved one is suffering from?
  2. Do they have a good reputation and how do they rate?
  3. Do they accept my loved one’s health insurance and will we incur any out-of-pocket costs?
  4. Does my loved one need inpatient or outpatient treatment?
  5. Does the facility offer transportation?

These are just a few of the questions you’d want to ask. A reputable program will have a strong admissions/intake department to help you answer some of your questions. However, it is very important to do your own research. 

Another option is to find a Treatment Placement Specialist who can help you navigate this process in order to secure the best treatment for your loved one. A good Treatment Placement Specialist typically will have existing relationships with well-vetted programs already established. He/she will help you come up with the best short and long-term treatment plan possible for your specific needs. In addition to Interventions and Sober Coaching, I am also a Treatment Placement Specialist prepared to assist any family in this endeavor.
Please contact me, Joe Ortiz, if you or someone you love needs assistance at 732-599-7817.

Joe Ortiz
Interventionist
Certified CRAFT Method
Certified Break Free Method

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WHO SHOULD GUIDE A FAMILY THROUGH A DRUG/ALCOHOL INTERVENTION?

When planning and conducting an intervention, families often choose friends, family members, and other loved ones. While this sometimes may work, oftentimes it does not produce the wanted results.

Interventions are often an unpredictable process and people may not react in ways that you have planned for. The addicted loved one may deny that they have a problem, may attempt to deflect and blame others and resist treatment. The participants may get too emotional and lose their composure. All of which helps to create a situation where the intervention becomes a “confrontation” as opposed to a “conversation”.

For these reasons, addiction professionals often recommend a professional who is trained in moderating an intervention. A professional whose responsibility is to lead and guide the conversation. The professional interventionist is trained in navigating complex family dynamics and overcoming unplanned challenges during the process.

Joe Ortiz
Interventionist
Certified CRAFT Method
Certified Break Free Method

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SOME OF THE IMPORTANT STEPS OF AN INTERVENTION

When a professional interventionist is working with a family, there are some steps that are vital to a successful process. Here are just a few:

1. Building a strong Intervention Team- The team normally consists of specific family members and/or friends who are committed to the process. These are loved ones who will work together and present a united front in order to deliver a strong message. A message that says, “we love you, we are here for you, we want change for our whole family, we will support your efforts to recover 100%, but we will no longer support your addiction.”

2. Treatment Planning- While preparing the family for the intervention, the Interventionist will be working on a treatment plan. This is done with the families input and with careful consideration of the families health insurance and finances. It is important to have a treatment plan in place so that when their loved one accepts help he/she can get right to work on their recovery.

3. Education: The family should learn about the nature of addiction, the nature of enabling and also on how to set healthy boundaries. It is very important to help the family have a better understanding of addiction. It is also very important to identify ways that they’ve utilized to try an address the problem that may not be working. Learning a new approach, perspective and way to communicate are key!

4. Letter writing: Letters are typically used during the actual intervention meeting. A template is provided to the family along with support and guidance, so that what is drafted will be impactful upon reading it to their loved one.

These are just four examples of some of the very important steps needed in order to conduct a successful intervention. It is always best for the family to hire a professional and not try doing this process on their own. They may only have one chance at doing it right.

Please contact me, Joe Ortiz, to learn more. You can call me at 732-599-7817 or fill out the private contact form on this website. Thank you!

Joe Ortiz
Interventionist
Certified CRAFT Method
Certified Break Free Method

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HELPING FAMILIES OVERCOME ADDICTION

What is a Family Intervention?

When people think of family interventions, they inevitably think of a confrontation between themselves and their addicted loved one. Some believe an intervention is only what they see on television. Most people do not understand that an intervention is a process. It is not a one time event. This process is ultimately used to help a family and their addicted loved one move towards change. 

Understanding the importance of a professional intervention and how they work is essential.

An intervention is a pre-planned strategy to calm a volatile situation and improve it. An intervention, by definition, is when specific methods are used to address particular problems or behaviors to achieve specific goals.

A professional family intervention is when an interventionist forms specific intervention strategies for and with the family of a substance user. The ultimate goal is to help the addicted loved one see the need for change and accept help by way of a predetermined treatment plan.

One of the most important roles of the interventionist is to identify problems and potential behaviors that may not be helping. The idea is to help the family see how their current strategies may actually be working against them and preventing the substance user from accepting help. 

Some of what interventionist will educate and coach the family on also includes:

  • The addiction’s impact on the family as a whole and as individuals.
  • An overview of addiction
  • Codependency, enabling, and reactivity
  • The importance of family recovery
  • The benefits of long-term treatment

As the interventionist learns of the family dynamic and more about the behaviors of their addicted loved one, he or she will modify and customize the intervention process accordingly. Any new information obtained during the family preparation will be considered and more modifications may be made. The idea is being as prepared as possible in order to have the impact needed so that their loved accepts the help they so desperately need.

Finally, a well planned and effective intervention process helps to begin the healing process for the entire family and not just their addicted loved one. Everyone caught up in the destructive cycle of addiction deserves to recover and live happy and healthy lives. 

Helping families and their loved ones affected by alcohol and drug addiction.

We understand how addiction impacts families. 

Our services are geared to help families and their loved ones heal!

Joe Ortiz
Interventionist
Certified CRAFT Method
Certified Break Free Method

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What to Do When a Loved One Relapses

Recognizing and understanding the problem, and helping a loved one reach the point of accepting treatment and entering into recovery, is an important milestone. But what happens after they have been treated and start to use or drink again!?

Watching a loved one relapse can be gut-wrenching. It’s normal to experience a flood of emotions. You may feel angry, sad, scared, and resentful. You thought this was behind you and your family, and now, here you all are again. The truth is that like any other disease an individual can regress or relapse. But that does not mean that your loved one is doomed to a life of addiction.

It’s easy to become frustrated by your loved one’s repeated attempts to stop using drugs and/ or alcohol. It’s very easy to think that if they wanted to stop, they would just stop. It may seem that simple in the mind of someone who has never struggled with addiction, but it isn’t that simple at all. In fact, drug and alcohol relapse is a common part of addiction recovery. SO NOW WHAT? What can a family do to help their loved one?

FAMILY INTERVENTION 

It is difficult if not impossible to see the situation from the stage. A clearer understanding most often comes from the view in the balcony. The intervention process helps families see from a different perspective.

Being emotionally attached and overwhelmed can compromise the family’s ability to find a successful solution. A professional Interventionist is able to see things from a different perspective and help determine if a family intervention is appropriate.

The Many Ways Addiction Affects The Family

Battling a substance use disorder is viewed by many as a personal experience. Because harmful substances have devastating effects on the user, many may not take into consideration the other people involved. Spouses, children, and parents may all be impacted by the way addiction affects the family.

The effects of drug and alcohol addiction can be both short-term and long-term. Peaceful, loving homes can be divided by the strain caused by drug and alcohol abuse. Conflict becomes normal as family members fight to engage with their loved one who abuses alcohol, for example. Trust begins to erode. Family members may become more guarded when a loved one is abusing illicit substances acts with aggression or hides their disorder in secrecy. Marriages can end due to changes caused by addiction. Communication becomes increasingly difficult, if not impossible, which only heightens frustrations.

GET HELP 

Compounding the aforementioned challenges and frustrations is the fact that recovering from a relapse can be very difficult for an individual who suffers from addiction. Some folks in recovery say that recovering from the relapse was harder than getting sober the first time around. This is often due to their feelings of disappointment in themselves, accompanied by feelings of guilt and shame. A well planned intervention can help get your loved one and your family back on track and back to recovery. Interventionist Joe Ortiz can serve as your guide and support throughout this process! 

Joe Ortiz
Interventionist
Certified CRAFT Method
Certified Break Free Method

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EATING DISORDER TREATMENT AND RECOVERY

Is your loved one suffering from an Eating Disorder disorder and in denial about needing help? A well-planned family Intervention can help get your loved one the treatment they so desperately need.
What is an Interventionist?

An Interventionist is a professional who will help to educate and empower the family so that they can influence their afflicted loved one into accepting treatment for their disorder. He or she will guide, coach, and support the family through a well-planned and customized Intervention.

You and your Interventionist will create an action plan specifically designed to help your loved one recognize their problem. The intervention plan should include building the intervention team (typically family and close friends), enabling, how to lovingly (yet effectively) set healthy boundaries, what an intervention is and what it is not, intervention setting, and writing letters to be used at the intervention, and more.

During this process, the interventionist will also coordinate the enrollment and entrance into a treatment program that is best suited to your loved one’s needs. 

If your loved one is in denial about their eating disorder, take the first step today and find a Professional Interventionist who can help.

How Do Eating Disorder Interventionists Work?
The first step in the eating disorder intervention process is to seek help. If your family member or loved one has an eating disorder but is unwilling to admit it, you don’t have to sit back and watch them suffer in denial. You can do something to help!

Do some research and find an eating disorder interventionist in your area. Once you’ve identified an interventionist contact them and let them know what’s going on.

After speaking directly with the interventionist specialist, they will create an action plan specifically designed to motivate your loved one to recognize his or her problem and enter treatment. The intervention plan will include factors like the setting, participants involved (family members, etc.), and a specific approach best suited to your loved one’s needs.

Before the intervention, the specialist may spend time educating you and your family on eating disorders and how you can best support and help your loved one during treatment.

The intervention itself will most likely involve a counseling session/s, so family and friends have a chance to share how the disorder’s destructive behavior has impacted them. If the individual agrees to treatment, the interventionist will typically coordinate the enrollment and entrance into a treatment program.

Interventionists help countless people recognize their illnesses and accept their need for help. In fact, a study on ED interventions showed that there is an 89 percent success rate with an intervention.

If your loved one is in denial about their eating disorder, take the first step today and find a professional eating disorder interventionist in your area who can help.

Reach out for support 

Interventionist Joe Ortiz can help guide you and your family through the intervention process. Together you will explore how the eating disorder is affecting your relationships—and how various family dynamics may be contributing to the problem or impeding recovery. Joe will help you regain control of your lives and enter into a life of Recovery. Recovery for the whole family!

Joe Ortiz
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Certified CRAFT Method
Certified Break Free Method

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STEPS OF AN INTERVENTION PROCESS

The stress and burden of watching a loved one struggle is too great for most of us to bear alone. We begin to react and respond emotionally, often feeling isolated, lost, and afraid during this time.

Interventionist Joe Ortiz has helped many families move from fear to hope.

When it comes to getting treatment and finding recovery, there is no one-size-fits-all approach. Interventionist Joe Ortiz’s experience gives him unique insight to know which possible solutions will be the best fit for your family.

FIND A SOLUTION

Joe believes that meeting the client where they are at is a very important and crucial aspect of his work. One of Joe’s greatest strengths is the ability to create a safe, loving, and caring dynamic within the family. Creating a loving and safe environment is key to overall success.

CREATE AN INTERVENTION TEAM

Over the years, Joe has learned that working with families and their loved ones in a loving and caring dynamic enhances the intervention process and allows family, friends, and loved ones more ability to relate safely and positively.

GUIDE THE DECISION-MAKING PROCESS

Joe guides families in selecting the appropriate treatment for their loved ones. The goal is always to select the most appropriate clinical treatment that is either covered by insurance and/or is within the family’s budget. As an independent interventionist, he is not connected to any one treatment center in the country. Meaning he has no administrator relationships with any center ensuring the highest ethical conduct.

EDUCATE THE FAMILY SUPPORT TEAM

Joe believes in recovery for all. He is committed to helping families and their loved ones as a whole, so all can become healthier and happier. He helps each member of the family develop and practice self-care and establish clear boundaries.

SPEAK WITH JOE ORITZ AND TOGETHER, WE’LL FIND A HEALING SOLUTION TO GET YOUR LOVED ONE THE HELP THEY NEED.
BOOK CONSULTATION
Call 732-599-7817 for a free, confidential consultation.

Joe Ortiz
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Certified CRAFT Method
Certified Break Free Method

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THE FAMILY’S RECOVERY IS AS IMPORTANT AS THE RECOVERY FROM ADDICTION

How to Help Your Loved One When They Don’t Want Help
I often get calls from friends and family members asking for guidance for a loved one. They are watching a parent, a child, a spouse, or someone they love in pain and want to get them help.

One of the first questions I ask is, “Does the person want help?”

The answer to this question greatly affects the guidance I can offer someone. The frustrating part about any mental illness, including substance use disorders, is that the person who suffers typically has an altered perception of how their actions affect themselves and the people around them. The idea of help may not enter their mind because they truly don’t believe there is a problem. In some cases, this is denial. In other cases, this is a lack of insight.

When walking families through the process of getting help, these are some of my biggest messages:

Get help for yourself first—it’s just like when you are on a plane and the flight attendants remind you to put your oxygen mask on first before you help another person. Working through your own “stuff” helps you be available to your loved ones in a positive way.

Set realistic expectations—often family members just want their loved ones to be “fixed”. I set the tone with families that recovery is a process and you can’t put a timeframe around getting better. Expectations are especially important for parents to orient around as sometimes children are pushed back into activities or school sooner than is recommended.
You can’t work harder than your loved one—there are times that I see family members go into crisis mode getting help for their loved ones as the person sits back without buy-in to the process. As frustrating as it is to sit back and “do nothing”, the person must be willing to engage in their own treatment and recovery before changes can take place.

Time takes time—I have to reiterate to families that we have to allow a person time to recover. Their recovery is not on our timeline, it is their own journey. That does not mean family members don’t have healthy boundaries or reasonable expectations. This is where working with a professional Interventionist can be very helpful for loved ones to have their own parallel journey of recovery.
I enjoy supporting family members through their own journey as their loved one struggles with their addiction. As painful as it can be to watch a loved one suffer, it is also empowering and freeing for family members to learn that they have tools they can use to keep themselves healthy through the process.

There is hope in recovery and my best work is when I can instill that in individuals, their families, and the communities they live in.

Joe Ortiz
Interventionist
Certified CRAFT Method
Certified Break Free Method

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YES, IT WORKS. YOU ARE WORTH IT. YOUR FAMILY IS WORTH IT!

An Intervention.

One simple word, but yet it evokes such a vast range of emotions. Fear, anxiety, hurt, pain, and bitterness can all keep us from taking this step in addiction recovery. Thoughts that swirl through the mind when contemplating an intervention could include:

  • What will they do?
  • What will they say?
  • What should I say?
  • What if I screw it up?
  • What if they hate me?

This mental narrative can prevent us from taking necessary action. 

YES, IT WORKS. YOU ARE WORTH IT. YOUR FAMILY IS WORTH IT.

Joe Ortiz
Interventionist
Certified CRAFT Method
Certified Break Free Method

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THE OPIOID EPIDEMIC

According to the CDC’s National Center for Health Statistics there were an estimated 100,306 drug overdose deaths in the United States from April 2020 to April 2021. This was an increase of 28.5% from the 78,056 deaths during the same period the year before. 1

How did we get here?  In the mid-1990’s, Purdue Pharma, the manufacturer of OxyContin, promoted its Opioid based pain killer as “safe”, “effective” and “non-addictive”. Purdue launched a massive marketing campaign and marketed this powerful drug as “non-addictive” knowing full well that in fact, it was. Other pharmaceutical companies followed suit, though not on as large a scale as Purdue. 2

In addition, despite a lack of adequate studies, the FDA approved the medication for both short term and long term pain. Thus beginning the over prescribing by physicians across the country and leading to the Opioid epidemic that we still find ourselves in today. There have been several waves of this epidemic since the 1990’s which have included Heroin and the proliferation of the very deadly synthetic based opioid, Fentanyl. 2

In my own personal and professional experience, I have met many individuals that were prescribed an opioid drug for acute or chronic pain and found themselves addicted in a relatively short period of time. Many of these people had never had any type of addiction problem prior to taking this medication. The opioid was typically prescribed for an injury or after a surgical procedure. These people came from all kinds of backgrounds. Backgrounds such as injured high school athletes, business executives, attorneys, nurses, union workers, urbanites, suburbanites…etc. The list goes on and on. In the nine years I’ve been sober, I have personally lost three friends to an opioid overdose. Leaving behind heart broken families, children and friends.

But, there is also the good news. In my personal and professional experience, I have also known countless others who have overcome their opioid addiction and have remained in long term Recovery like myself. Men and women, young and old, from of all sorts of backgrounds, living happy, healthy, and productive lives.  As difficult as it can be, there is Help and there is Hope! Lives are being saved and families are being restored. There is an entire army of people fighting this epidemic! Interventionists like myself, therapists who specialize in addiction, detoxes and rehabs, physicians, law enforcement, government, non-profits, and many, many more. There are scores of people willing to help those who need of Recovery! I encourage you to reach out to these people and organizations for help! Thousands of people are recovering today! Yes! We Do Recover!

If your family is struggling with a loved one addicted to opioids or any other substance, please call me for a free consultation. An intervention may be just what you and your family need. Let’s build a strong family team and begin your journey to wellness and wholeness.  Your journey of Recovery!

I hope this article helps someone today!  Love and light to you all!

Joe Ortiz
Interventionist

Certified CRAFT Method
Certified Break Free Method
Cell:  732-599-7817

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